One of my longtime friends here at the Democrat-Herald has rehabbed herself from something like seven knee surgeries and still stays as active as medically possible, which is way more active than most people.
“I have a lot of respect for that,” I told her years ago, and I still feel the same way.
In addition to limiting her somewhat, all the surgeries have left her with a collection of scars that are more visible during this warmer time of year, and I’m glad that she seems not at all self-conscious about them, because to me they’re badges of honor — symbols of getting back up after being knocked down.
Scars, surgical or otherwise, tend to tell our stories, or at least part of our stories. I have a number of them, and I have to admit I sort of like them. Here’s a partial rundown:
– Three arthroscopy marks from the 2002 repairs on my right labrum and rotator cuff, injuries I attributed at the time to “39 years old and 39 million throws.” The rehab was lengthy, almost a year, but now I can throw as well as ever.
– A 3-incher along my left Achilles from the 2007 removal of an old bone spur that was making walking and running fairly excruciating. Again, good as new now.
– A backwards Z on the back of my left hand from a 1984 removal of an uncomfortable and unsightly ganglion cyst.
– A 1-inch line on the back of my left index finger from a bit of saw work when I was about 10. Hey, at least the finger is still there.
– A caterpillar-sized mark on my left upper arm (turned my head to the left one day on a rafting trip 25 years ago and forgot I was, for reasons I can’t now comprehend, smoking a Swisher Sweet).
– A half-dime-sized divot on my forehead, the result of running into a neighbor’s mailbox when I was a kid chasing a flyball.
I could go on awhile but you get the idea: Scars, in many cases, are simply the illustration of the pursuit of a rich life. So if you’ve got them, likely you can be proud of them.

4 comments
travisclark says:
Jul 8, 2009
I have a scar a long the bottom of my chin from when I was 9 or 10 and fell face first onto the edge of a curb. It has healed nicely. I have to admit I'm rather proud of that battle wound. (Battle with a curb??) Along with that I have three surgeries scars each about 2 inches long from a burst appendix, and two hernias. All of this before the age of 27. Is this good or bad? I guess I've never broken a bone…
Laure_A says:
Jul 8, 2009
I have a number of scars, too. Some from surgeries, some from being too adventurous in my younger years, and some even from mis-use of razors.
The one I'm most conscious of is on my neck from brain surgery in '08. I'm still a bit hesitant to put my hair up when I'm going out in public. I'm not exactly sure why that one bothers me so much.
Most women are horrified by stretch marks left as a result of carrying children (sorry guys, it's a reality for us Moms). I've considered THOSE badges of honor for 21 years! I'd rather have my children than a perfect looking tummy. I just don't show it off.
CateHahn says:
Jul 9, 2009
Laure – if you survived brain surgery, you deserve to show your scar as a badge of honor! I too have stretch marks, but my badge of honor is an eight inch scar on my knee where I fell into a coffee can back when they didn't have the protective rims – cut to the bone and slid back along the bone about 3 inches. Took a lot of stitches and they reattached the ligaments slightly off, but at least I can still walk. Happened when I was 4 and I still clearly remember the day. One good thing came of it – my family's protest (along with lots of others, I'm sure) made protective rims mandatory!
Laure_A says:
Jul 9, 2009
Thanks Cate. I'll keep that in mind.