One Saturday morning back in January 1991, I was working the sports desk here at the Democrat-Herald, helping to put out that afternoon’s paper — back when we had a Saturday afternoon edition and no Sunday paper; we longtime staffers refer to those times as the good old days — when one of my colleagues made a humorous yet poignant comment.
The Persian Gulf War was just under way, most of the U.S. only recently having gotten its first real exposure to Saddam Hussein, a reprehensible despot by any measure, regardless of your political or military leanings.
Anyway, that Saturday, as I slogged through high school basketball stories and boxscores, a colleague on the news side was editing that day’s police information and got to an item about a fatal car accident.
“Went off the road on Fish Hatchery Drive — why couldn’t something like that just happen to Saddam Hussein?” he asked.
It was funny — at least in a dark, newsroom comedy sort of way — yet I always felt he was at least partially serious and also that he had a point.
Here was a really evil guy, the worst of the worst, who had taken or ruined millions of lives. Would it be so bad just to hope his limo crashed on Baghdad’s equivalent of Fish Hatchery Drive? Or at the very least, to beĀ happy upon hearing that sort of news?
Myself, as a kid I was taught to oppose evil — my dad was a WWII vet — but also to forgive, to not hate or judge, to wish harm on no one, and to believe that where there’s life, there’s hope. And four decades later, I can’t really knock any of those teachings.
I’m not exactly Will Rogers, who never met a person he didn’t like, but I’m close. I like almost everybody, at least to the point where I can see people’s positives and get along with them if they make any effort at all to meet me halfway. I really do feel like most people are basically decent at a minimum.
But I will allow that I’ve encountered a small handful of folks whose consistently awful treatment of other people outstrips my ability to like them — and threatens as well my ability to feel bad about it if their car went off the road on Fish Hatchery Drive or Goldfish Farm Road or Independence Highway or anywhere else.
Part of me feels like its contrary to the notion of decency to look at anyone’s fatal mishap as justice, no matter what the person has done to that point … but part of me doesn’t.
Any thoughts on this?

6 comments
jennifermoody says:
Nov 4, 2009
"The rain is raining all around,
On both the just and unjust fella.
But more, it seems, upon the just,
For the unjust hath the just's umbrella."
I think it's just human nature to wish bad karma upon those who do the world wrong and seem to go about their blissful way.
If a random car wreck or horrible illness or the like were to hit any of the people involved in the gang rape of that 15-year-old in California, I, for one, would have a pretty hard time feeling sorry about it.
CateHahn says:
Nov 4, 2009
I know from working in corrections, especially with sex offenders, that they often have different thinking patterns that allow them to see their actions as normal and unharmful. But I agree, most people have at least some good in them. Our choices decide our fate, but it doesn't seem fair that the really evil people seem to prosper (probably because they are willing to do anything to get what they want) while the decent folks slog along trying to do good in the world and struggling to survive. Go figure!
Laure_A says:
Nov 6, 2009
Being human, I have imagined bad things happening to bad people. I don't like thoughts like that though, and often feel guilty after having them and push them far out of my mind.
Bad things have happened to me and I consider myself a pretty good person. Having experienced what I have, I would never wish those things upon others regardless of how "bad" they might be. God loves them too, even though he may not like their behavior.
I can't say I've ever experienced true hatred. And for that I am eternally grateful. Hate is a powerful thing that can consume every part of your being. I don't want to live like that.
stevelundeberg says:
Nov 6, 2009
Last week I was just telling one of the kids I work with that hate is a consuming thing that's a detriment to the person doing the hating and that, for her own good, she should let go of any hate she held. I can't say I've ever experienced true hatred either … but on a very few occasions, I've been close. On those occasions, I tell myself to let it go
stevelundeberg says:
Nov 6, 2009
I find that going for a run, lifting weights, splitting firewood or hitting some baseballs helps.
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